Ex-Etiquette

Posted: March 4, 2018 at 2:28 a.m.

Q How do I deal with being the last to know everything? It's like my fiance is still in a relationship with his ex and then there's me. For example, the kids had a doctor's appointment. They all ended up at our house afterward. Evidently, there were plans to go for ice cream after the doctor's, but everyone forgot to tell me. So, my guy, the ex, their kids are all saying, "Let's go!" and I'm wondering, "Where?" I caught on and jumped in the car, but I feel like I'm the odd man out. When does this normalize? When do I get to have a relationship with just my fiance? Not his ex, not his kids?

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