Posted: January 28, 2018 at 2:14 a.m.

Q My ex and I disagree about how to celebrate our kids' birthdays. We celebrate all other holidays together with extended family, and we both agree it would be nice to have one party, but when the date rolls around, she insists on hosting. When I get angry about it she tells me to have my own party, but we both know friends and family won't go to two parties. When I asked the kids what they want to do, they said they would like to have "some parties at Mom's and some at Dad's." What's good ex-etiquette?

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