Need to be right is wrong

Posted: April 6, 2014 at 3:21 a.m.

DEAR CAROLYN: I grew up in a family where I was taught to say “I’m sorry” after having a fight with someone, and to identify the part of the fight where I did wrong. I learned to believe that there is almost always something both sides could apologize for — and that I should generally apologize proactively to help ease the way.

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