Posted: October 16, 2013 at 2:57 a.m.

Q Today my roommate came home to say she had found her soul mate, the love of her life; however, he was my soul mate last year, and after a very heated conversation where I told her I thought she was invading my privacy, she told me, “Deal with it, all’s fair in love and war.” That can’t be good ex-etiquette. What do I do?

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