Ask for what you really want

Posted: December 10, 2013 at 1:45 a.m.

DEAR CAROLYN: I wanted to check this disagreement I’m having with my fiance against a neutral third party. Every once in a while, I notice a situation in which his preferences or perspectives might be different from mine, and when those come up I like to communicate with him about those preferences and how strong they are respectively, to figure out the optimal course of action.

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